In today’s world. Due to technology children and parents are going far from each other. For example:- In today’s world Children have mobile phones and they also have television, I.pod,Tablets etc for their entertainment. Day-by-day not only children but parents are also becoming addicted to these devices. Which create distance between children and parents.
In olden days, whole family sit together and have a nice talk and play together. But in today’s world nobody is free and have that much of time to sit together and have a nice conversation. All are busy in their own works or in phones I know technology is good and phones are useful in many ways I.e. for maintaining contacts with the people who are living far off or etc.But over-using it.Is harmful for ourselves
These addictions towards gadgets had already started to create a distance between children and parents. The children and parents can’t sit properly for 30 minutes for a nice conversation. That’s create bad effect on children’s growth.
Parents should be friendly with their children. If the distance between parents and children increase,so children can go on wrong path. Children will stop sharing important things about their life to their which further will create bad impact on children life
Hence, the relation between children and parents should be good ,understanding and friendly. That children don’t hide any important thing from their parents
However, it’s the big-time for all parents that they should start giving their children a great and quality time. Now,we know that due to Corona virus parents are mostly in their house. So instead of going out of the house or addicted to phone, computer or television. Its the best time to observe your kids and know about their nature,habits,likes and dislikes. Parents can able find out some hidden talent in their children. For example:- My dad found that I love to write and I write it very well. So my dad encourages me and support me to write blog and post on social media.
We are seeing that, Now a days children are so depressed due to their studies and some time they do unexpected action I.e. suicide. So in the end we see the fault of the parents they show high-expectations towards their children. Then comes the role of the society. Parents want to show to society that their child is capable of doing in any field I.e in studies or sports because we have created that type of atmospheric that only intelligent students can run the race. Then comes the topic of competition that children are competing with each other to prove themselves in the front of their parents, society and community. Children are forgetting to spend childhood they mostly stay indoors and play in mobile they forget to play outside.
As per the census report of Indian medical there will be one depressed child in every house from the year 2024
Parents are also forcing their children to compete with their friends and classmates and to score the highest marks in their class. Parents compare their children with other children. This all drama and high-expectation from their children forces children to take the unexpected step.
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So,instead of all this drama parents should sit with their children and have a nice talk with them and try to show them that they love their children most and they are so much important for them and their children have it’s own identities and different talents and patterns are happy with their children.If every parent do this thing so children will enjoy their childhood properly without any tension.
Parents nature and behavior have great impact on their children. Parents should understand their children that what type of nature they have and parents should react as per their children behavior.
Sometimes,children stubborn for many things, if there stubborn is good for things than parents should fulfill it, if there stubborn is not good for any cause,than parents should definitely not fulfill it. Children will upset for some time, but parents should make understand to their children that it is good for their better cause. If parents will fulfill and stubborn of their children than their will bad effect on children’s growth
For every children parents are their role model.and so it is the duty of parents to create positive and happy atmosphere in the home and encourages children to acquire knowledge in the field of their choice. They should take education and learn in creative ways.This will create their interest in their studies.For every children parents are their role model.and so it is the duty of parents to create positive and happy atmosphere in the home and encourages children to acquire knowledge in the field of their choice. They should take education and learn in creative ways.This will create their
Healthy competition is good⁷ for children but it should not create jealousy between each other. Parents should give them good guidance and make them understand the spirit of sportsmanship.
The only thing is that parents have to understand their children and should give quality time, should encourage their talent,support them in their weak subjects or difficult subjects instead of scolding them and force them to study.
Parents have to nurture children with moral values, family values and bonding to fight and overcome difficult situations of life and this will lead them to become a good human being.
Written by:- Fatema Abbas Vali-15 years old